Breaking Boundaries

We train our minds to be defeatists, We blow off our own little candle go hope. We think that we aren’t any different from the crowd. Perhaps, sometimes we create our own fence of self doubt.

Cynical thoughts are all that that surround our soul, When we attract negative energy to our strengths. It is when we realise that, We are trapped in the boundaries we created ourselves.

It’s just a matter of one step, We have to take to save ourselves from drowning in anxiety, All it takes is the courage to never give up. And unlock the fear of failure, To let our dreams fly high in the sky!

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~Quote of the day~

If you want to create something great you will have to go through something hard.

                                                                                          ~ Reveur (Dreamer)

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Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award!!!!

Hey guys!

I hope everyone is well and taking good care of themselves. I am extremely happy to announce that I have been nominated for the Ideal inspiration blogger award by Rising star. I am extremely thankful to Rising star for this nomination. His blogs are an amazing source of inspiration and positivity!

Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award is a non-official Award to the bloggers as a reward of wonderful work on their blogs. It’s just as important because it really reflects the good impact we can have on other people’s lives. Awards are important for the inspiration, towards the success of our fellow bloggers and especially newbie’s to become future “Stars“.

Rules:

• Thank the person who has nominated you and provide a link back to his/her blog.

• Answer their questions.

• Nominate up to 9 other bloggers and ask them 5 new questions.

• Notify the nominees through their blog by visiting and commenting on their blog.

• List the rules and display the “Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award” logo.

• Provide the link to the Award creator, as Rising Star from https://idealinspiration.blog (It’s all about Inspiration).

Rising star’s Questions for me

1. What is your best inspiration source?                                                                                          My personal experiences and people around are the best source of inspiration to me

2. What is the main purpose of your blog?                                                                                     The main purpose of my blog is to motivate and connect with people around and create a community of positive energy.

3. What inspires you to write?                                                                                                               The power of words inspires me to express myself through the art of writing.

4. How often do you write?                                                                                                                 I write once a week usually publishing on Wednesday ( subject to change).

5. What is your best time of creativity?                                                                                              There isn’t the best time of creativity for me. I always keep my diary with me, so whenever any thought comes across, I go ahead and capture it in my diary:)

My Questions                                                                                                                                             1.  What motivates you to keep up with blogging when you are going through a rough phase?                                                                                                                                                      2. What is the purpose of your blog?                                                                                               3. If you had to describe the connection between you and your blog in one word, what would that be?                                                                                                                                          4. One thing you have learned so far in your journey of blogging?                                                 5.  How do you relax in times of stress?

My Nominees 

1. Ekanthika
2. Era
3. thebibliophilewriter
4. Divya singh
5. Manoj Mehra 
6. Anju Rajput

I hope my nominees accept my nomination and answer my Questions!

Thank you so much again the Rising star for nominating me!

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Let’s fight back …..

You can’t go back to normal.          You have to come out with a new you.                                                    With stronger immunity and a calmer mind.                                        So stop worrying, just aim to win this fight with your life.

 

From the past few days, there has been a lot of negativity around. The COVID19 pandemic seems to have come way far more than expected. Even though, it has a good impact on nature as it recharges itself with new energy, less pollution, and pure air to breathe. But the world is still suffering. You and I both are suffering even while being confined to our homes. The hourly updates of the impact of coronavirus on every freaking news channel have created chaos which as of now finds no repair.

Our lives have been completely changed and we as responsible citizens cannot go back to being normal now. Our mental state, our energy our goals, our state of living has taken an unexpected turn as we find ourselves in a weird circle of life. Where taking charge of what we think and how we think seems obnoxious.

I have come to a point where I can sense negative, very negative vibes surrounding me and with that, I realized that there is something inside me that has changed. This pandemic has taught us the power of the almighty. It taught us that life is unpredictable and we cannot control what will happen next despite all the planning. My perspective about life has changed and I find myself value everything life has to offer more than ever. I am progressing towards not worrying about our future but rather focus on making my present better. Just make the best out of my time and abilities without taking any pressure to be productive and not comparing my situation with others. Just doing what I feel is right with all my heart while still being at home.

However, it is important to know that this situation has affected some people to an extreme level, beyond our imagination.I respect all the covid19 survivors and their families. And I am extremely proud of all the Frontliners who are out there risking there lives just to safeguard ours. I am truly thankful to them for showing tremendous courage and motivating us to fight back with a strong belief that together we can and we will overcome this time of difficulty. The best way we as citizens can contribute to this fight is by staying at home and maintaining a hygienic environment.

Let’s all unite,
To create a future more bright.
To make this situation alright.
Let’s hope and pray to throw the virus out of sight.
Let’s all fight.

LOVE LOVE

Liebster Award!!!!

Hey guys!
I hope everyone is doing well and taking good care of themselves. I am very happy to announce that I have been nominated for the Liebster award by silver stone. This is my first ever nomination so I’m truly thankful to Sliver Stone for this. You should definitely check out the blog as it has got some fun articles on a variety of topics.

Rules To The Liebster Blogger Award:

1.Thank the blogger who nominated you and give a link to the blog.
2. Answer the 11 questions given to you.
3.Share 11 facts about yourself
4.Nominate between 5-11 other bloggers
5. Ask your nominees 11 questions
6. Notify your nominees once you’ve uploaded your post.

Silver Stone’s questions for me

Q1 What was the one song that got stuck in your head?                                                           About love By Marina
Q2 Tea, coffee or hot chocolate?
Coffee
Q3 What’s the one thing that reminds you of school?
One thing that reminds me of school is getting up early, it was like a routine to get up early every day back in school. So I sometimes miss that.
Q4 2 positive and 2 negative things about yourself?
Two positive things about me are:
– I am hopeful in every situation.
-I am a confident person.
Two negative things about me are:                                                                                                  – I am short-tempered                                                                                                                         – I get hurt very quickly 
Q5 Would you rather have the ability to control the weather, or have the ability to talk to animals?
I would want to have the ability to control the weather according to my mood.
Q6 What inspired you to start blogging?
So back in school, This friend of mine had started his own blog and I was really fascinated by this whole blogging thing and since I had a thing for writing, I thought it would be a cool idea to start a blog of my own.
Q7 what’s the best book you’ve read?
I haven’t read in a long time. But I think my favorite book so far is  “The sun is also a star” and its sequel book,” Everything Everything “. If you are into reading romantic novels, then you should read these two books.
Q8 Name the celebrity you admire and the one celebrity you dislike?
I admire Ayushmaan Khurana. I don’t dislike any specific celebrity as such.
Q9 if you could time travel, where would you go?
I would like to live in the present only. So I wouldn’t want to time travel anywhere.
Q10 what’s your favorite holiday?
My favorite holiday destination is the Maldives.
Q11 Are you a talker or a listener?
I am actually both. It all depends on my mood. But mostly I am listener and I let my words speak for me.

11 Facts About Me
1. I love watching Romcoms and thriller movies.
2. I am a pro bathroom singer
3. I am an ambivert.
4. I love annoying people with my lame jokes!
5.Good food = Good life
6. I have social anxiety.
7. I don’t like to be late. Punctuality is a very important aspect of my life.
8. I love writing and reading poetry.
9. I never make the first move because I suck at starting a conversation!
10. I am very bad at baking but I still keep trying.
11. I am obsessed with keeping fancy diaries, they are my best friend.

11 Questions For My Nominees

Q1When and how did you start blogging?
Q2What is your favorite quote?
Q3Beaches or mountains?
Q4If you had an extra hour in the day, what will you be doing?
Q5What is your all-time favorite food?
Q6Would you rather read a book or watch a movie?
Q7How do you deal with stress?
Q8What appeals to you most, soul or appearance of a person?
Q9What message would you like to give to your future self?
Q10What are you most thankful for in your life?
Q11How are you spending time during the COVID19 crisis?

My 11 Nominees

1.  Aayushi’s thought                                                                                                                               2. John ranjit                                                                                                                                           3. A man deep
4. Rupal garg
5. the chronicles of a virgo
6. Harman kaur
7. a.mermaid’spen
8. Abhinav
9. Simran totlani
10. kanjika
11.Anurika                                                                                               

 

Lastly a huge shout out to all my readers. You really keep my journey of writing going on. Thank you so much for supporting me. Stay tuned for the next post!

Stay home. Stay safe.

Love Love

 

BE KIND TO YOURSELF.

Hey guys! Today’s post is a video post.
I came across this video by a very famous motivational speaker and author – Jay Shetty a few days back. And this video just blew my mind and I got very emotional. It taught a very beautiful lesson we all easily take for granted. I hope you enjoy the video.

I hope you must have watched the video as you continue reading this post. How did you feel? Well, to be honest, when I saw the video, I started crying. Because I realized how much I mean to my loved ones and how less I mean to myself. How much of negativity have I treated myself with? It taught me that I deserve self- love, and respect. It taught me how harsh I have been to myself sometimes and didn’t realize that I am an inspiration to someone. And my loved ones recognize the beauty of my soul even when I tend to forget my potential.

I just want to give this message out that you have so much power and potential hidden in you. But if you don’t love yourself, you will never ever be able to recognize that. So embrace yourself as much as you can.

Image credits : Pixabay

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Love Love

An unexpected vacation at home

This unexpected vacation at home surprisingly turned out to be different, like a good different. It has turned out to be a roller coaster ride for me. Like on some days I’ll be really happy for no reason, smile a lot. the whole day, sing at the top of my voice, drink a lot of water, eat well and sleep well. But then other days, I’ll suddenly be sad, again for no reason, won’t stop crying the whole day, drink less water, eat too much, listen to depressing songs and won’t be able to sleep all night and be really worried about this world pandemic taking our lives.

Since I’m all by myself the whole day, I don’t know why but I started to think of the past. All the good and bad memories, the people, and situations I could not face but should have. The courage I didn’t gather to tell someone, what I felt and all the people that I may have hurt. My past actions, and feelings just suddenly filled my heart with a lot of anxiety and built some complex emotions.

This change in my behavior, made me really ponder upon this one question. Do I truly know myself and can I handle myself while being confined to the boundaries of my house?

So long story short, below are the two most important things, I learned about myself at this time of self -quarantine. And it made me realize that no matter how hard life is if I can recognize myself well, I can live happily, even while being at home all day.

• If I had to give up, I would have done it a long while ago and be dead while still being alive. But I didn’t. That means that I still have a lot to achieve and a long way to go, maybe that’s why I still manage to smile while feeling all these weird emotions.
• Sometimes things or situations I don’t expect to cross my way are the ones that actually make me happier and stronger from inside. That means I can handle unexpected things, so I don’t need panic all the time

Through my personal experience and learnings expressed in this post, I would like to encourage my fellow readers to introspect on themselves. We all have something to hide from the world, but we usually end up hiding it from ourselves too. We must realize that we all have some magic in us, a unique power that gives us strength, and something we never really bothered to find out while being busy in our lives. This is the time my friends when you can sit back, relax and find your true self, and cherish it for life……

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LOVE LOVE

Unknown.Unsaid.Unheard

Hey my fellow readers. I hope you all are safe and following self isolation seriuously. Well, staying at home all day is not easy but, one good thing quarntine has done to me is that it has replenished my thoughts with new creativity, and developed my perspective to think deeper. And with this i present to you a poem, from a new perspective and a new me.
Also, since April is the National Poetry month what could be a better start to the month!
Happy reading 🙂

Its a beautiful world outside, please don’t loose hope.

She was crying,
But no one could see her tears.
She was screaming so loud,
But no one could hear even a word.

She lost herself in the fear,
the fear of being hurt, the fear of being her,
The fear that Brain washed her mind,
Into believing that she wasn’t enough.
She just wasn’t what others wanted.

Her thoughts were the most powerful weapon she had,
And her beautiful dreams had her back.
But, to the world she meant nothing.
Everyone tried to break her confidence,
To pull her back from what she wanted.

Silenced her voice, discouraged her to go ahead.
But she always knew she could do it.
Even though her heart was broken, her thoughts unheard and her destination unknown.
She still chose to walk on the path.
She chose to be who she was, a fighter after all.

And one day she reached somewhere,
Where she met herself and her dreams.
She could feel the beauty of her existence.
She could hear her voice that felt melodious.
She achieved the unknown, the unknown that was waiting to be conquered by her.

Her tears had been replaced by a charming smile,
All the taunts, people made at her, all the anxiety built inside.
Everything disappeared when she felt the essence of life,
when she fell in love with her identity.
And achieved complete serenity.

If you enjoyed reading this then do share it with your friends and celebrate the Art of poetry!!

Stay tuned for the next post:)

LOVE LOVE

This too shall pass….

Hey guys, I hope you all are spending time being at home and taking good care of yourselves. Corona virus is spreading at an alarming rate, and taking more and more lives each day. The only way out is to stay at home, keep sanitizing and practicing social distancing. To spread awareness, about this situation and to lift everyone’s spirit, I have written a poem. Hope this gives you strength and encourages you to stay at home.

Let’s not step out of our home,
Let’s not spread the virus along.
I know self isolation seems tough,
And social distancing is a bit too much.

But life is precious dear,
so let’s not let this virus tear us apart.
Let’s save ourselves and others,
And make the world a livable place all together.

Wash your hands as many times as you can,
Precautions are the only thing in our hands.
Your health should be your priority,
And self isolation, an important responsibility.

The world is in a huge crisis,
But just remember, that we all are in this together.
And together we have to face it,
And together we can, and we will defeat it.

Thank you for reading!!

Stay safe. Stay at home.

LOVE LOVE

GROW THROUGH WHAT YOU GO THROUGH

A Flower grows through both the sunshine and the storm it goes through

Let’s be honest, even while being a very strong person inside and giving yourself priority over others, life can still be really shit at times to the extent where we as individuals start to doubt our decisions. The choices we made in the past, the people we allowed to be a part of our lives, the kind of lifestyle we adopted, and the kind of opportunities we were exposed to. Every highlight of our life tends to fade away and turn into a dark memory each time we indulge in self-doubt, and then we regret, we regret it to a whole next level and go through a roller coaster of heavy emotions. And then as a result, we are afraid of facing any situation and ignore everything, literally everything.

What we don’t realize in this crazy journey is that whatever we have gone through, or are going through is a part of who we are and plays a crucial role in the development of our mind and strengthens our emotional intelligence. We go through something, so that we can learn from it and make the most of it to be happy inside out.

Every experience, every heartbreak, every struggle, every comeback, every success, each person that comes in your life means something to you. Everything happens for a reason and the reason is to contribute towards your growth of being a happy version of yourself.
So if you regret, or are ignoring something, you should firstly accept that the past cannot be changed and secondly you’ll have to face what you are ignoring one day, so just do it once and for all and free yourself from unwanted anxiety.

Just live life to the fullest and grow through what you go through.

Also amid the spread of corona virus, please stay at home, spend time doing little things which make you happy. Connect with yourself better. It’s high time we take social distancing and self isolation seriously. Let’s all face and overcome this challenge together.
Stay at home. Stay safe.

Love love

LET IT GO AND MOVE ON….

TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND LET IT GO ~ unknown

If someone breaks your favorite toy (or any other object Close to your heart) and crush it into a thousand small pieces. How would you feel? Miserable right? I mean how could you possibly accept that something that meant the world to you is not there anymore. It’s natural to feel heartbroken, but the thing is, the situation has occurred and it cannot be changed. It’s up to you whether you let yourself suffer because of it or stop crying and move on.

Well, this was just an example but doesn’t real life situations give you a similar choice?
If you’re deeply hurt by any past experience you can either carry it forward as an emotional baggage until the suffering breaks you apart or be smart enough to realize that it’s the past and the only thing, you could possibly gain from it is learning.

So inhale that learning(it may be good or bad) and exhale the suffering that detaches you from the beauty that life has to offer. Always remember that feeling hurt is okay, feeling heartbroken is okay but never ever let the pain, the suffering hold you back from shaping an exuberant future.

HAPPY MOVING ON!!

LOVE LOVE

Don’t cry, just give it another try..

Life is so wierd sometimes. It’s like everything is going fine and the way it should, but something inside you doesn’t feel right. May be a lack of motivation, or not believing in yourself. I don’t know what that feeling is exactly but it’s definitely something I have never experienced before. Sometimes I’m full of this positive energy that all the stress just vanishes away very easily. And sometimes I’m so trapped in myself, that i don’t know what to do. Clueless and confused.

But guess what? In spite of all the ups, and downs, happy and sad sometimes even embarrassing moments, I didn’t give up. Despite it being an extremely resentful day, I still manage to wake up the next day all fresh and relaxed, ready to conquer the world and face all the challenges, be a little more productive than yesterday and manage to survive at the end of the day. I never give up, I never stop no matter what happens and this kind of attitude has really helped me to progress towards attaining a happy life step by step.

Obviously it’s not something that comes to you very easily. One may feel  lazy,  dejected,  distracted and frustrated at times and like giving up. But ask this one question to yourself and think about it very honestly. Do you really want to give up? Do you really want to give up on something you’ve worked so hard for, on your dreams that are extremely close to your heart, or on people that mean the world to you. Do you really want to let it go off that easy?

Think about it very deeply and you will get the answer on your own. Just don’t let the stressful and discontented phases in life defeat your hard work and happiness.

Keep asking this question every time you feel demotivated or feel like giving up and figure out the answer on your own. Because that will make you mentally stronger.

May you lead a wonderful path for yourself ahead. Keep loving yourself and stay tuned for the next post!

I’LL BE THERE FOR ME

Hey all! So recently i realized how long has it been since i wrote a poem. So here i am presenting to you a poem in an unique style . Its a personified letter to my own self in the form of a poem. I hope it draws a connection between you and your innerself. I have tried my best to get the zeal out of it, so i really hope you all enjoying reading it while getting into the depth. Thank you!

Be there for yourself, who else will be….

I’ll be there for me.
When life seems hard,
When everything falls apart,
When it’s difficult to see a winsome smile in the mirror,
When an “it’s okay” won’t be enough.
I’ll be there for me.

I’ll be there for me.
When there’s a load of shit to handle,
When sleepless nights torture your soul,
When awful comments affect you the most
When you feel you have no one around,
I’ll be there for me, no matter how wierd it may sound.

I’ll be there for me.
When everything seems out of place,
When cynical thoughts are trapped in your head,
When you can’t recognize your own face,
When tears won’t stop coming down your cheeks
Listen buddy, I’ll still be there for me.

Life can be a lot of things at one time.
But hey, you don’t need to give up.
Just hold on through the awful, relax during the ordinary and Breathe in the amazing!!

No matter how tough it may seem,
These are phases which will come and go.
You’ll be happy and you’ll be sad, but both will make you grow.
And one day will come when you’ll shine and glow.
Just remember that in all phases,
I’ll be there for me, in thy heart making you who you are — a beautiful soul 🙂

Hope you enjoyed this one. If you did do let me know in the comments. Also donot forget to like and share with your friends. And for more such exciting and motivational posts do follow my blog!!

Love love

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

I know everyone is busy running in their fast track lives to achieve everything they need to shape an exuberant future.
But I just want you to take a minute out and notice yourself in the mirror, not just physically but mentally. Try to feel your inner self and realize how far have you come from your “I can’t do this” phase to “OMG! I did it” phase.
I just want you to see yourself the way a child looks at the world. As a nice, fun, kind, and  pleasant environment where you can smile, laugh, cry, make mistakes, learn from them, do those stupid little things to be happy, even if it turns out to be embarrassing, and still manage to move on and survive.
In the process of growing up, we complicate things for ourselves, so much that we often end up forcing ourselves to walk on the path of self-destruction, harming our body, mind and soul.
It is important for each one of you to realize that no matter how much you pretend to be strong on the outer side and fight your own battles with the world, you are still a normal human at heart, who struggles to get out of bed on particular days, but does it anyway, who sometimes breaks down when the harshness of reality hits them hard. I just want you to recognise your inner self, and what it needs the most SELF- CARE.
No matter how engaged you are with work, always take out some time to figure out a way that’ll help you nourish your inner self to make it believe that its enough the way it is, and even if you fail to accomplish that feeling, never bottle down your thoughts inside. Always have the courage to share it with someone you feel comfortable with. Please give your innerself the love and care it deserves!!

If you enjoyed reading this , please do share it with your friends and spread the message. And stay tuned for the next post.

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Wear your confidence on your sleeve

Heyyo everybody. Back with another exciting post packed with motivation written with lots of love especially for you all. I hope you enjoy reading it. Also it’s officially the first post of 2020. So happy new year guys!! Let’s all have a great year ahead.

Everyone’s out there to scare you, to tell you that you’re not capable enough for taking up certain responsibilities. Because not everyone would want to see you touch those heights to be where they want to be. Most people will make you feel like you’re not enough, or there is something wrong with you and basically put you down. And it is our nature to give priority to others opinion about us which eventually turns into stress, anxiety, desolation, and unhappiness leading to ultimate disappointment with the way life is.
But, but….. Guess what? There is still a way out, there is still a solution to this complex situation.
Which is a very simple yet strong 10-letter word — CONFIDENCE. That’s it, that’s all anyone would need to move ahead towards the path of ultimate happiness. Just be confident with the way you are with the way you speak and also with your style of working. Confidence helps to boost up a person’s self-esteem, and energizes the mind to achieve all the planned goals with greater zeal.
So don’t freak out if everything is not in place, if you’re too confused, or if you feel dejected. Just wear your confidence on your sleeve, take a step ahead, forget about whatever people said just do what feels right, have faith in your self and prove to the world what actually is your real worth. Just keep learning new stuff, experience new opportunities and build your confidence throughout to fulfill your dreams.
PS: love yourself and smile :))
LOVE LOVE

Cheers to 2019!!

This year was not less than any crazy rollercoaster ride. I have a couple of good things to count on and a couple of terrible ones to learn from. This year went by not so peacefully, I had my share of ups and downs, highs, and lows, but hey, guess what I survived and that’s the biggest asset of 2019.
Life was different this year, and even though I have a lot to regret on I’m thankful to God that I have one great reason to look forward to a new beginning, and that is hope. Hope to forget the awful memories of past, hope to have the courage to step forward despite everything being so hard. Hope to spread love all around. Hope to keep the hope alive in me.
And on this note I would like to dedicate a heartfelt message to all my beautiful readers, and I really hope it makes you not to give up and smile.
Even if this year wasn’t the best time of your life, you went through something beyond explanation, you lost some precious souls in life, or you couldn’t give your best to things and people you love. You should be grateful that you have yet another opportunity to start again. The year ahead is waiting for you to spill the magic hidden inside you and move towards a journey of happiness. So Don’t be scared. Be obliged that you survived through this year despite it being very hard. You have a lot to achieve and a lot to move forward for. Keep the hope alive in you and bid this year a goodbye because it gave you a reason to look forward for the year coming by.
Happy New year!!

LOVE LOVE

I’m proud of you…..

If you were ever anxious about  expressing your feelings, if you ever felt that you will regret sharing it, or people will judge you, hurt you, break your heart and put you down, but you still shared it and took the burden off your chest, Then this is specially for you.
I want you to know  that you are a diamond at heart because what you did is rare, and it is hard to find such precious people like you in life. I know how difficult it is to share something that not everybody will understand, and respect. But I’m so glad that despite the negativity out there you had the courage to spread the positive light by confessing your deep emotions. I’m proud of you, and you should be too because sharing something very close to your heart and being relived off it, is one of the  bestest feeling in the world. You are lucky to have experienced that feeling without worrying about what may happen next. You deserve all the love in the world, and all the happiness that is yours. Never ever give up even if someone breaks your heart because loosing a diamond is the other person’s loss and not yours. So keep loving yourself and spread the same everywhere:)

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I KNOW IT’S DIFFICULT

HEY GUYS!

I’m sorry i haven’t been so regular with my blog lately. It’s just that i have my exams going on and i was just feeling a bit low and was having a rough time. But i’m fine and happy know. I just wanted to give you all this little piece of advice which might help you to come out of your low phase just like i did. its just a lesson from my personal experience. Hope it adds value to your life….

@yellowscapes

I know it’s difficult to smile when you aren’t happy. I know it’s difficult to forget the past and move on. I just want to tell you that you don’t need to pretend to be happy if you’re not. If someone’s behavior bothers you just say it and get away with it, don’t hurt yourself too much for it.  If someone’s says something negative about you on purpose just make them realize that they shouldn’t have said what they said. Don’t let people take your feelings for granted just because you seem polite or funny or cool on the outer side.
Its high time you make people close to you realize that you matter, your emotions matter, and so does your life.
“Just because I’m not a revenge person and I forgive easily doesn’t mean i don’t feel Bad about the personal comments you make.”
Just say it, and you’ll feel better and calmer, and happy on the inside 🙂
Till then keep loving yourself and stay tuned for the next post!!
Love love:))

I’M SCARED TO GET HURT…

Keep the hope alive in you ❤️

I’m scared to get hurt. Well who isn’t ? We all live in the fear that someone might break our heart that someone will play with our trust and leave us shredded in a dark world. We hide our true feelings because we fear rejection. We fear our insecurities that aren’t  actually even real from someone else’s eye.
How ironic is it that we want people to know what we truly feel without us even uttering a single word. Strange right.
Well I don’t have the answer to this ironic thing but I definitely believe that we are scared to get hurt only by the people close to our heart because we deeply love them. We accept them the way they are and appreciate the relation we share with them. The message is to keep loving, but not with the fear of getting hurt but with the belief that love will overpower that fear. That every negative feeling will fade away when love will blossom.
I understand how hard life can be, sometimes it’s so difficult to tell someone how you feel for them due to differences that limit the love.
In that case always remember to give time to yourself because eventually things will fall in place, what’s meant for you will be yours even if its somewhere far away. It will find its way in the journey of life and if it doesn’t, don’t stress out even better stuff is coming ahead.
Always keep the dammn hope alive in you and keep smiling!

#thoughtoftheday

#kindnessmatters

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Always do what what you love and don’t let negative people or negative thoughts stop you from fulfilling your dreams.

Love love!

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Always believe that you can and you will do it!

#WednesdayWisdom

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Dear society
I’m sorry I can’t be you, I can’t pretend to be the perfect me you want. Tall, slim, and fair is not anymore, just a taunt. I can’t have the life you want me to live, I can’t be happy in a house you put me in. I’m sorry but I can’t put up with your narrow standards, and pretend to be laughing at your lame jokes. Seriously stop embarrassing yourself in front of people like me, who are trying to prove themselves and fight against your meaningless advises. just stop.
Sincerely,
Dreamer.

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Show the true side of being a dreamer and fight back every challenge coming your way and rise above all.

with love,

~DREAMER

HAPPY PEOPLE PERFORM BETTER ~

What is the one thing anyone who meets you for the first time would notice about you? Not your eyes, or your clothes, or your bag but the expressions on your face and the smile on your lips and your body language. That is something that will truly define you and give people an insight into who you are without Actually, you spilling it out.
This brings us to a very important aspect of life that is the “ME- TIME.” The precious time we would love to spend with ourselves, to get to know something undiscovered about our selves. Me-  time is a completely free and nonjudgmental zone where it’s about you, well it was always about you.
You would be surprised to know that psychologically spending more time with yourself increases your ability to be happy, which develops the skill to perform better at work.
Surprisingly wired right? I mean we all know that but the real question is are we really helping ourselves to be happy?
Through this platform I would like you to start, and spend time with your true inner self to know the answer to this question. It won’t take much of your busy schedule just a cup of coffee or tea or whatever suits you, a pen, and a dairy. Just write what you feel and let all your emotions flow out.
(and do let me know if it helped to bring any change in your life)
Till then stay tuned for more such fun posts.

 

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ALWAYS REMEMBER….

• That things will not always be the same.
  Better things are always coming, nothing is constant so always believe that better things are on their way.
• That you can never control what other people do or say.
  The only person you have control over is yourself. You can only control your actions, emotions and behaviour and not anyone else’s. So work on yourself and don’t blame others for doing or not doing something.
• You can always choose to be happy.
  Remember that in any situation, you always have the option to be happy. It just makes it easier to handle the situation at hand and improves mental health.
• You are doing the best you can.
  Never underestimate yourself. You are the best version of yourself and you are doing great. Don’t be very harsh on yourself.
• Do not compare yourself with others.
  You are different and so are your situations from others . Don’t try to compare your life with others. Everyone perceives things from their different perspectives.
• Motivation and dedication comes from within.
  Being motivated and dedicated towards doing a particular thing comes from within. No external energy can control your inner self. Don’t let other people’s opinion regarding you influence your emotions. One should always be self motivated.
• Feel blessed with what you have.
  One should feel comfortable and satisfied with what they have, if not then one should work for what they want. One of life’s secret lies in being satisfied with whatever one has achieved and feeling blessed to have achieved it, no matter how small it is.
• Explore new opportunities.
  ” Learn to listen. Opportunities could be knocking at your door very softly.” – Frank Tyger
  One should always be open to new opportunities and challenges, and should not  restrict themselves to a particular style or skill. Innovation comes from exploration, so never stop doing that.
• Don’t be scared of the future.
  One should never be afraid of the future as eventually things do fall in place, if one works hard and believes that she/he is capable of doing what they love. work in the present and don’t worry about the future.
   
  Last but not the least,NEVER STOP LOVING YOUR SELF. You should always be your first priority:) These were just a few pointers I feel that everyone should keep in mind when one gets stuck somewhere or is motivated to give up. I hope they inspire you to keep moving ahead and make you feel optimistic about life. I would love to hear your views regarding the same and know my fellow readers better. So please do let be know in the comments. Till then stayed tuned for more such cool content coming up !! ~ DREAMER
  

#Thought of the week

People who hurt you or make you feel bad about yourself don’t have the right to occupy any space in your head. please don’t let negative thoughts and people destroy your postive space. Don’t let them be trapped. Set them free.

Love,

DREAMER

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Life Lessons…..

No matter whatever you do, people will always criticise you for who you are till you give them the power to influence you. They will keep making you feel bad about yourself, if you yourself feel that way. This will create an environment where you will feel uncomfortable. Uncomfortable with the way people look at you and with the way people feel about you. This will then give rise to insecurities which you will definitely try to hide through insane ways, by pretending to be someone else, doing things you hate, going to places you don’t like, hiding your flaws and what not . You might not realise it, but you will actually fall in a trap where you won’t matter, your life wouldn’t matter. All that would matter to you is what others think about you,making it worse. This will take way all your positive energy and would make you mentally ill.
Here are some tips and tricks to be emotionally strong and keep your mind calm:
1.Practice self love, it may seem obvious but most of us fail to do that. Just start with accepting your weaknesses and working on them, and doing things you love even if its something your friends hate. It’s important.  
2.Stay away from people who distract you from your goal. It may take a while to figure out the right kind of people. But don’t worry take your time and choose the people who actually care about you.
3.Stop being hard on yourself. Stop thinking that you are the only one suffering,  and stop thinking that you are dumb. Embrace the beauty of your thoughts and don’t stop believing in the power you have to change your world.
4.Express your innerself. Be it writing, or talking it out with someone close or working out whatever it is just blow it off your mind and relax.
5.Stop hiding your tears,even if there is no particular reason for it. Cry and take that shit going on in there out . In order to smile, it is important to cry, cry hard.

One by one implement it all, you may rise, you may even fall but hey its fine its life, one by one you will achieve it all!!

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Be motivated to be a better version of yourselves. Happy reading 🙂

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WHO AM I ?

How many times has it happened to you that when someone asks this question “tell me something about yourself? And you’re blank. Even though you do have a lot to speak about yourself yet you don’t have anything to say At that moment. It has happened like a lot of times with me, in interviews, auditions, while filling application forms and even when I ask this to myself, I don’t really have a perfect answer to that wierd question.

This makes me sometimes wonder that we all are so busy gossiping about other people, discussing their lives, scrolling through their Instagram, that we often forget ourselves. We forget to spend time alone, and wonder who are we inside. Even though life may seem like a long journey to explore ourselves but there are less chances we get to understand ourselves. And indirectly all our anxiety, confidence, skills, emotions, self-esteem, motivational level is affected by that one question we often fail to answer. So, it is important to ponder upon this question.

All you have to do is just sit down for some time, relax a bit, forget all the pending work and just take a dairy and a pen, close your eyes and think about yourself, your likes, dislikes, goals in life, your feelings towards others, etc. Just write everything you know about yourself. This will help you create a better picture in your mind of who you are deep inside. You don’t need to share it with anyone. It only concerns you. And the next time you start to worry about the future or anything you should not doubt your worth because you will by then know who you really are. Once you thoroughly understand yourself, then other people’s opinion would not matter, and you will be able to increase your productivity in every activity you do. No explanations needed to tell others. Its just you and your diary.

Trust me I’ve tried it and it works, not instantly but eventually, it does. You should try it too and share your experience with me. Happy writing 🙂

ITS NEVER ENDING….

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If you think that some problem was the worst one you could have ever come across then watch out, an even more complicated one is in your way. Simply because they are never ending. The problems, The failures, the fears, the obstacles, the mountains, the intoxication of people, its never ever going to end. You will not always succeed, people will never stop judging you and the obstacles will show no empathy towards you because you’re not alone in this. Several others are there too, struggling like you are and feeling the exact same way as you.
But the question is how to stay motivated despite knowing that the struggle is never ending. Simple turn it the other way round if failures aren’t permanent and never ending then the chances of succeeding are never ending too.  All one needs to do is change the way we look at life. Because no matter how motivating these words maybe, if we don’t retain it in our mind then it’s not going to benefit us in any way. See there are so many phases in life and each phase demands a different you, so, one has to switch towards optimism and keep trying, keep trying hard to keep that damn hope alive in us. Hope to fight back from Every person who underestimated you, who hurt your feelings, and who never believed in your capabilities. All one has to make sure is that be patient and keep working hard and smart.

YOU WILL MAKE IT, not today, not tommorow, not even the day after but one day. So get out of your comfort zone and work each day to reach that one day.
#monday motivation

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YES I FAILED, SO?

Many times in life we fail in exams, tests,interviews,auditions etc but that’s normal right? because everyone has at some point failed in either of these. But the point is not with failing but how one reacts to it and most importantly how one deals with it. The following poem is a very simple one yet it has a powerful message I wish to convey to everyone who hates to fail, which everyone does.

I failed, not once, not twice, not thrice  but many times.
I failed at proving my worth, failed at telling people who i am.
Yes i failed.
I failed even at things that aren’t rocket science.
I failed at lying , i failed at trying, i even failed to bring a smile on my face.
I failed at faking someone else but  also failed  being myself.
But like the wind that never stops blowing, like the river that never stops flowing.
I too never stopped moving, be it failing at almost everything,
i never failed at trusting the process.
I never stopped believing that Sometime someday i  will fail at giving up and never stop moving ahead.

#be friends with failure

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#fightback #be motivated #life

YOU=PRIORITY

#beyourownpriority

Sometimes in life, we want something just because everyone else wants it too, because it seems to be ”cool”. We don’t care even if its something we aren’t really passionate about, as long as its trendy we can do anything for it, even pretending to be someone else. Pretending to be someone else is a problem. We don’t always realize the difference between what we want to do and what we are actually doing and end up working on something that isn’t just our thing, or isn’t giving us enough motivation to go on with it. At this moment, we feel that maybe we will have to struggle to make our own space, maybe we have to behave, like everyone else to get noticed. But remember to achieve anything in life. one should never compromise on their personality, the way they are, the way they look, their attitude and nature. You don’t need to adjust in an environment which doesn’t allow you to be yourself, which doesn’t accept your flaws and appreciate your strengths.
It’s quite simple actually, anything that isn’t a part of your happy place should not occupy any space in your head. It’s not the end of the world, it’s just that you are made for something which has more worth.

FEAR

Fear is the final hurdle….

Disclaimer :This post is not about what fear does to us, or what causes fear or how can we avoid fear. But about what exactly is Fear and why.
According to Google, the definition of a fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain, or harm. But it isn’t that simple a concept, right? Fear is not just an unpleasant emotion but a complex expression which is obviously not easy to handle(that’s the reason I’m talking about it). You all would agree with how difficult it is to let go of fear. But have you ever wondered why? What is that we fear so much from? Things, people, situations or fear itself. Hydrophobia, acrophobia, claustrophobia, aerophobia etc are the common terms everyone can relate to in some or the other way. I’ll tell you why because our biggest fear is ourselves. We created this toxic concept for ourselves, and we made ourselves believe that FEAR exists, which is nothing but false evidence appearing real .
My friends it is time to stop believing in fear and start to believe in ourselves and the power we have to defeat it. Off course fear is an obstacle that limits our boundaries, pulls us back into darkness and stops us from moving ahead. And The only way to deal with it is to be friends with it. Accept fear and face it with the best of your abilities, and it won’t harm you. So the next time this 4 letter word enters your head, don’t panic and don’t let it go so easy, do what you fear the most and it’ll never come back to you.
Always remember that fear will end exactly from where you started it, YOURSELF!

YOUR STORY ISN’T OVER YET….

Life is a long journey filled with unforeseen events. It flows like the wind, not knowing what will happen next, a storm may be in the way or a pleasant sunshine would glorify the path. We don’t know. But what we know is that we will have to face both the storm and the sunshine. Both good and bad things will happen to us. But One should always remember that both are temporary in nature. They will come and go. So, we should never be very overwhelmed with victory or feel very dejected with defeat . One has to accept that we will face rejection, we might also fall below our own expectations. But that doesn’t mean that we won’t be loved, that we won’t receive affection from people. Off course, we will.
But all I am saying is that we should not let all these things affect us emotionally. One should not attach themselves with any event, be it failure or success. Attaching ourselves with something, makes it difficult for us to move on. This eventually affects our mental health. We may not always notice it, but this makes us mentally drained with complex emotions.

No matter what may happen, may it be an opportunity or a threat, just remember that your story isn’t over yet!!

#keepwritingyourstory

THAT ‘SOMEONE’…

Have you ever fantasied about a dream world where someone will come into your life and change it forever? That maybe someone will come and spill some magic and take you out of all your sorrows.Well, I have definitely believed in an illusion of my dream world until I was pushed down into reality.

One of the hardest truths about life is that no one will come to your rescue, no one would save you from drowning, In fact no one will come and tell you that you’re drowning. No matter how harsh it may seem but this is how it is. So instead of waiting for that ‘someone‘, who doesn’t really exist why not be that ‘someone‘ for ourselves. One of the most important lessons, I have learnt is that no one can help you until you help yourself. No one can make you smile until you choose to cry.You may experience a point in life where you feel you have landed at a dead end, and everything would seem dull, and gloomy. Don’t forget that no matter how dark it is, there is always some sunshine ahead, and future holds greater things for you. So lift up yourself with the help of yourself because you yourself can be your most deceptive enemy, and you yourself can be your most intimate friend. The choice is yours!

#choosetobeyoursomeone

~~THE BETTER HALF~~

No matter how happy you are today, you will always have tough days, days when you won’t feel like getting out of bed or meet your friends, or go to work. That means you’ll give up. NO. That is the time when you will have to help yourself and make yourself understand that this is not the end. You will have to trust the process and the timing of your life. You will have a lot of opportunities coming your way, you will also get more chances to explore yourself and know yourself better. We all have that better half in us. The half that does not give up, the half that stays patient and faces all the challenges that life throws at it and you know just make you feel stronger. Learn to listen to your better half and cherish it.
At the end of the day just remember that you must never stop looking up, and never settle for less than what you deserve.

#mybetterhalf:)

A letter to Self….

Hey guys ! This post is a little different from the others. Its a letter to myself.The inner me that stayed with me during all ups and downs,the me who gave me the strenght to face life. I’m sure that you might also have felt these kind of emotions when you think about yourself. Happy reading 🙂

Dear inner me
I know I haven’t been in touch with you for a while. It becomes very difficult for me to connect with you when life is rough at times. I won’t lie, but there have been times when I didn’t believe in you and I just felt like giving up because I found my life going nowhere.
Those were the days when I lost all faith in you, I refused to work towards a better you and I just accepted that maybe I don’t have the potential to achieve what I want in life.
But you know like all other times, this too had to pass. This bad phase, the struggle had to end. And guess what, fortunately it did after a couple of sleepless nights and non-stop crying for absolutely no reason. Everything around me actually changed when I decided to start life all over again. Because at some point of time, you made me realize that all bad experiences, bad memories, I had they just made me feel strong, strong enough not to give up and try until I get what I want.
I am very thankful to you for this. You made me learn that it’s okay to start again after failing but it’s not okay to stop and give up.

Love love

The sparkling light within….

I don’t know where will I be 10 years from now, what my life would be like and whether I’ll like what I’ll be doing. And sometimes it doesn’t really matter. It doesn’t matter how things would turn out be, because I believe that, ” life is an exam where the syllabus is unknown and question papers are not set. “(by someone from my school magazine). I feel it is important to keep making efforts to keep studying what ever you can because you never know what might work out for you.
The future is unknown, situations are unknown but what is well- known is our inner selves, the person we are deep inside, and the values and principles that shape our lives in the direction of our heart.
So make an effort to make your thoughts magical, your soul pure, and your mind calm to recognize the inner light within you, because that is the only light which can erase the darkness that might be surrounding you.
We all crave for affection, we all want attention, and we all dream of perfection. But always remember, before you step out into the real world, you need to give yourself the attention you deserve, the affection your soul craves and the perfection of thoughts your heart would rejoice. This will make you a true and beautiful dreamer, the one who can remember the inner light, while being trapped in the dark sorrows of life and uplift themselves with a smile and enlighten their heart with the true REVEUR(dreamer) they are!

#recognizeyourinnerlight

Be Unapologetic!

Karma says, Someday Someone will break you so badly, That you will become unbreakable.

You will meet a lot of people in your life. Some will tell you that you can do better, some will say you can never make it to the top. Some will understand you and be there with you wholeheartedly, some will also taunt you and try to put you down. Some might also try to prove that you are worthless and everyone is better than you. They will criticize you, try to put you down make you cry, and snatch away your hopes.

You will experience many different versions of people on this journey of life. This may sound a bit scary. But one cannot deny the fact that you will face the harshness of life, once you step in reality. And once you step in, there is no looking back. You can only move forward.

But how, when people are trying to overtake you and push you back? Simple, well not simple but let’s just say it’s worth it. Prepare yourself for the worst that could happen, make yourself strong enough to survive heartbreak, and get back up confidently. Be unapologetically you. Don’t mind people who are trying to overtake, instead, stand for yourself and move ahead with your own support. If someone is telling/speaking you bullshit, don’t ever feel guilty to answer back and shut their mouth.

You have to trust yourself enough to know that no one has the right to snatch away your dreams, your strength, and your happiness until you give them the power to. It is a long process to know people, to understand their intentions.

So take your time to figure out who needs your attention and who deserves your ignorance. Also a pro-tip – if you truly understand yourself and accept the way you are then this long process will seem easier to conquer.

Be unapologetic because it’s worth your life

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4 cool ways to find bliss + 100 followers!!

 

• Don’t lose your temper quickly.
• Don’t give up very easily.
• If you fail, try again.
• Love yourself and make it a trend!           

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